Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Black & White









Bloom and don't lose color...



As I was conversing with a couple ladies tonight, I realized, that insecurities are a BIG deal. We all have them, young, old, men and women. But why? I find myself being so hard on myself. For instance, my weight, hair, makeup (why can't it ever be like the girls on pinterest?) my smile, goodness how my thighs are like America when sitting... but when we are so hard on ourselves then what happens?

1. After analyzing my actions I realize that I speak these things over my life, I speak them over everything and anything God has created me to be and I shift these things in a whole new direction and my focus becomes self centered and these insecurities cause depression and anxiety to seep through.

I HATE FEELING UNCOMFORTABLE IN MY BODY.

But, as a woman of God (in no way perfect) I have challenged myself for the next couple of days, and maybe you should try as well, to start proclaiming GOOD things over yourself. Even if you don't believe it, speak it. 

Things always take a turn when your brain actually hears what words come out of your mouth. YOU are beautiful. YOU are perfect the way you are. YOU are flawless through Jesus Christ.

2. It's important to remember who you are. And just remember your identity is found in Christ (Ephesians 1:5) Allow Jesus to redefine your mind and completely transform anything that is not of Him. ALLOW. You won't regret it.


3. Having insecurities is perfectly fine... but don't let it define you. Overcome these bad boys by praying and being open to God and letting him do what He is wanting; which is to help you and give you strength, encourage you and build you up on a solid rock. 

I struggle with this daily, but I am being open to God and He understands that. I love you guys and am praying that God builds you up in every way. Be blessed.